15repyt wrote:Are you lot still going on about this? It was a simple question put out to get peoples opinions if they or new someone that had been in this situation and what the outcome was.Can't delete it as I have something to add ...
And for the last time it's not ME!
MODS PLEASE DELETE.
I knew a couple (no kids though) and he was having an affair for almost a year when he confessed to his OH. They went to counselling and tried to work things through but it just didn't happen as she was very bitter about everything. In the end they parted, he got together with the other woman and they ended up having 2 kids (in their 40s).
If you have a read in "The Lounge" area of Pistonheads there's a thread like this every few weeks. Some couples have parted, others have stayed together and worked things out. I think it will all depend on your friend's attitude to what has happened and how strongly they both want/don't want to try again.
Everyone makes mistakes in life ... don't they RM CYA?